The Rational Emotive Behaviour 'Have a Go Spaghettio!' Educator

Teachers who employ the Have a Go Spaghettio! pedagogy in their early childhood teaching practice are Rational Emotive Behaviour Educators. The Have a Go Spaghettio! approach to early childhood personal development is based on Albert Ellis' Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy theory (REBT) and his counselling paradigm, the ABC Theory of Emotional Disturbance. REBT is influenced by the Stoic Philosophers such as Epictetus, who said that happenings plus our interpretations of those events cause our emotional and behavioural 'upsetness' as Albert Ellis said. But REBT would not have come to be had it not been the work of Alfred Korzybski who created General Semantics theory. He alerted us to the idea of the 'map is not the territory' where our belief constructions (the map), our conceptions about life, are but a virtual representation of reality (the territory).

Teachers who teach early childhood student constructivists the Have a Go Spaghettio! pedagogy are Rational Emotive Behaviour Educators. They also promote the basic principles and ideas provided by Alfred Korzybskis, General Semantics theory. Pretty good, eh!

Give it a try banana pie!

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